Emily Jo Duits
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Easter Message 2009

Today is Good Friday and I've always wondered why they call it Good Friday.  There was nothing "good" about that day so many years ago.  It was the day that marked even more suffering for Jesus.  He was made fun of and mocked again at his crucifixion, he realized that several of His friends truly had abandoned him and weren't coming back, and we all know the rest of the story of the abuse and ultimate death that He endured and how for a split second even the Savior, fully knowing His purpose, felt forsaken.

I was mindful this week, though it never really escapes me anymore, the suffering that occurs in so many lives and there are such varying degrees of suffering.  Most people at one time or another will or have suffered because it is part of this world unfortunately. We have suffered in many ways, many of which were familiar to Christ.  Friends do abandon people in grief and the more I listen to people, this is not uncommon.  So many don't know what to say and some think you need to "get over it" and move on but mostly they just don't understand what grief does to someone and what the loss of a loved one means as you face each and everyday. Some unfortunately seem to be heartless and uncaring and don't seem to know the meaning of true friendship. The suffering and abuse of daily living is a constant and the feeling of being forsaken to some degree nudges in there from time to time. All of which were feelings that Christ too felt.

The "good" part of Good Friday comes from the sacrifice given.  If Christ hadn't suffered and died there would be no Hope for any of us and no truth of Heaven! Christ proved that even suffering and being broken hearted in this life can't shake the truth of eternity!  Christ lived it and breathed it and is our example. That truth became very real on Easter when He walked this earth knowing that He would ascend to a perfect place where the experience of this life would be no longer.  And so it is where we also remain.......

Forever focused on Christ and being eternally grateful for the gifts and hope given during our short stay here.  Without the gift of love and life where would we be?  The love I feel for my husband, my daughters, my soon-to-be son, my grandson, my family, my friends, and our precious Savior who is the keeper of our soul and our Em during this separation, keeps a joy within my heart.  If we knew the suffering that comes from such love and loss would we still go there?  Absolutely! Love is a wonderful thing.  If we knew that our Em would leave us at the age of 16, would it still be worth having her for a short time? Oh, ABSOLUTELY!!! Because our hope endures, even with the worst of conditions.  We find ourselves looking forward to the future and enjoying the gifts of this life amidst the suffering.  Those gifts of love and life have become even sweeter.

And so it is, a GOOD Friday.  Because death is no more!  Christ proved it with His love and our Em is experiencing what we can't even comprehend or dream about. So if you, yourselves are facing your own trials and suffering because of what this life can throw at you, be mindful of the gifts of love and of this life in the here and now and remEMber that this life is only temporary.  Enjoy what you have right now this Easter season and be thankful to the Lord that the best is yet to come!

Happy Easter!!

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