My earliest memory of Emily is in Elementary. We both had gold pom-poms. My last memory of Emily is in High School.  We had ninth hour Honors Language Skills together, she was the smarter one.  I cannot say that was my last memory.  I went to see Emily in the hospital two days before she went to be with her Lord in Heaven.  The memories of Em in the hospital are not primarily what I focus on. However, they are impossible to forget.  Although she was not physically strong, her positive attitude and bravery continues to remind me who she truly was.  "A friend is a person who knows your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are."  When I read this sign on my wall every morning, it reminds me of Em.  She never held grudges on anyone and always tried to help.  Emily was such an encouraging and positive person to be around.  I never once saw her put someone down.  Emily accepted your quirks and never judged your choices, she supported them.  Em was not only a friend, but also a teammate and peer.  Her dedication and determination would show in the gym when she played for the win.  Her grades showed the effort she gave, although in the classroom you wouldn't guess it.  I don't think that I ever say her finish an assignment in class, but when it came time for the test, Em would get an "A" and me, who studied my butt off, came out with the "B+".  Em loved to talk.  She was never seen without her cell phone on her hip or on her ear.  Her laugh was contagious.  Her hair was envied and her name was known.

   Emily Jo Duits has inspired my life in so many ways.  She brought God into my life, and showed the true meaning of friendship.  I will forever remEMber Emily and what an impact she has had on my life.  She will forever hold a special place in my heart!